Author Archives: happyhotwife

I was trying to figure out why it’s been so long since I wrote a blog and what it is  that makes me want to write about an event. I realised I have criteria. I don’t like writing blogs about meets because that’s too personal, too intimate, especially as most of the people I meet […]

A couple of years ago, when we had just started out on the scene, we used to go to a club called Jaydees. We’d made friends with people who also went there and it was a good environment for socialising. We’d arranged to meet a couple there who I had played with in a threesome […]

Back in early October Hubby suggested I go to the daytime event “What Women. Want” at VA for their Halloween party. It was during half term, and he’d take the day off to watch the kids. I spoke to a FWB I know quite well to see if he’d go with me, and we booked […]

So I’m doing this all wrong, not unusual for me! I’m starting in the middle, present day, then I’ll go back and start from the beginning. But hubby checked in with me this morning, asking after my mental and physical health (yes, I know I’ve got a good one there!). I told him I ached […]

As I stood in the doorway to kiss my husband goodbye, he placed a condom in my hand and whispered the words “Don’t be a good girl”. Those 5 words sent a frisson of electricity though my entire body, making my body hair stand on end and my stomach flip, but I couldn’t tell if […]

I’m just coming down from the high of an event at the weekend and it got me thinking about the many ways to meet people within Ethical Non-Monogamy. Be warned, this isn’t as sexy as my previous posts but answers some of the question I often get asked and may be interesting if you are […]